朋友之间吵架属于内部矛盾，你又何必较真呢？

Quarreling between friends is just an internal contradiction, why do you take it so seriously?

妇女的参与行为可表现在村庵修建、修庵组织内部矛盾处理、创造灵验故事和举行信仰仪式等四个方面。

Their behaviors include the following aspects such as building temples, dealing with some problems, working out efficacious stories, performing ceremonies and so on.