它是一片排斥异己的领地，它不讲原则，注重的只是一些琐屑无聊的风雅。

It is a piece of exclusion territory, it does not speak, only pay attention to some trivial boring elegance.

相反，一个忧郁的、时而友好时而变得冷酷或者排斥异己的母亲会培养出一个将来靠不住的恋人。

Conversely, a mother who has a depressive personality, and is sometimes friendly but then suddenly turns cold and rejecting, may raise a man who becomes a dance-away lover.