以这种心态而欲求长寿，岂非南辕而北辙！

With such mentality to looking for longevity, the goal for it would run in vain.

或者给自己一个释放激情和欲求的机会吧，没有怀疑、没有规矩，仅仅是那来自灵魂深处最真实的爱。

And maybe take a chance on that place of passion and desire, which is to be without either scepticism or dogma, but to truly love from the soul.