你也不用脸红脖子粗的呀，他又没偷你钱。

You don't need to get hot under the collar. He didn't steal your money.

你据理力争，和卖家的销售人员或是客户代表争得脸红脖子粗。

You've talked yourself blue in the face, trying to get some resolution from this salesperson or this customer rep.

要让我们知道的是，脸红脖子粗、看上去很气愤的样子是不受欢迎。

Let's face it, that red-faced, exploding-at-the-seams angry look isn't exactly fashion forward.