Single mothers with two daughters live in a 370 square meter mansion. The more independent the mother, the happier the child.
- posted on 2020-11-30
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wǒ shì
我是chloe chen
I am Chloe Chen
shì yī gè fú zhuāng shè jì shī
是一个服装设计师
Is a fashion designer
wǒ bān dào shàng hǎi yǒu nián le
我搬到上海有12年了
I moved to Shanghai for 12 years
wǒ xiàn zài gēn wǒ liǎng gè bǎo bèi nǚ ér
我现在跟我两个宝贝女儿
I am now with my two baby girls
zhù zài shàng hǎi lǎo fǎ zū jiè
住在上海(老)法租界
Live in Shanghai (old) French Concession
zhè gè fáng zi yǒu píng fāng gōng chǐ
这个房子有370、380平方公尺
This house has 370 square meters, 380 square meters
zhè gè shì yī gè píng céng gōng yù
这个是一个平层公寓
This is a flat floor apartment
zuì hǎo de dì fāng jiù shì gōng gòng kōng jiān gé chéng liǎng bù fēn
最好的地方,就是公共空间隔成两部分
The best place is that the public space is divided into two parts
wài miàn de bù fēn shì dà rén de kōng jiān
外面的部分是,大人的空间
The outside part is a space for adults
rán hòu lìng wài yī gè xiǎo de kè tīng shì xiǎo péng yǒu de kè tīng
然后另外一个小的客厅是小朋友的客厅
Then another small living room is the children’s living room
wǒ men bǐ cǐ hěn zūn zhòng bǐ cǐ de kōng jiān
我们彼此很尊重彼此的空间
We respect each other's space
suī rán wǒ hěn ài wǒ de hái zi
虽然我很爱我的孩子
Although I love my child very much
dàn shì wǒ jué dé bù yào bǎ zhěng gè fáng zi dōu gěi le hái zi
但是我觉得,不要把整个房子都给了孩子
But I think, don’t give the whole house to the child
hǎo xiàng wǒ men méi yǒu zì jǐ kōng jiān yī yàng
好像我们没有自己空间一样
As if we don't have our own space
wǒ liǎng gè nǚ ér xiàn zài
我两个女儿现在
My two daughters now
suì shì suì
morgan6岁,london是4岁
Morgan is 6 years old, London is 4 years old
wǒ jué dé yǒu jiě mèi shì yī jiàn hěn xìng fú de shì qíng
我觉得有姐妹是一件很幸福的事情
I think having sisters is a very happy thing
wǒ ràng tā men liǎng gè shuì yī gè fáng jiān
我让她们两个睡一个房间
I let them sleep in the same room
kě yǐ péi yǎng tā men gǎn qíng
可以培养她们感情
Can cultivate their feelings
zhè gè jiā lǐ miàn duì wǒ zuì bǎo guì de dōng xī
这个家里面对我最宝贵的东西
This family faces my most precious thing
yīng gāi jiù shì wǒ wò shì lǐ de chuáng ba
应该就是我卧室里的床吧
It should be the bed in my bedroom
wǒ nǚ ér měi tiān zǎo shàng dōu guò lái
我女儿每天早上都过来
My daughter comes every morning
rán hòu wǒ men jiù ài zài chuáng shàng liáo tiān
然后我们就爱在床上聊天
Then we love to chat in bed
yīn wèi cóng xiǎo de shí hòu wǒ mā mā gēn wǒ jiù shì zhè yàng zi
因为从小的时候,我妈妈跟我就是这样子
Because when I was young, my mother and I were like this
wǒ men jiā yǒu sì gè hái zi
我们家有四个孩子
Our family has four children
měi tiān zǎo chén qǐ chuáng dì yī jiàn shì jiù shì pǎo qù mā mā fáng jiān
每天早晨起床第一件事就是跑去妈妈房间
The first thing I do when I get up every morning is to go to my mother's room
wō zài mā mā de bèi zi lǐ miàn
窝在妈妈的被子里面
Nestled in mother's quilt
suǒ yǐ wǒ hěn xǐ huān lài chuáng
所以我很喜欢赖床
So I like to stay in bed
wǒ gēn wǒ qián fū yīn wèi lí hūn de guān xì
我跟我前夫因为离婚的关系
My ex-husband and I were divorced
rán hòu wǒ men liǎ xiàn zài chù dé gèng hǎo
然后我们俩现在处得更好
Then we are getting better together now
wǒ men zhù tóng yī gè xiǎo qū
我们住同一个小区
We live in the same community
tā suí shí xiǎng lái kàn xiǎo péng yǒu dōu kě yǐ
他随时想来看小朋友都可以
He can visit the kids anytime he wants
wǒ men yī nián yī qǐ dài xiǎo péng yǒu chū qù wán yī liǎng cì
我们一年一起带小朋友出去玩一两次
We take the kids out once or twice a year
wǒ men liǎng gè de gòng shí jiù shì
我们两个的共识就是
The consensus of the two of us is
lí hūn shì dà rén de jué dìng bù yào qù yǐng xiǎng xiǎo hái zi
离婚是大人的决定,不要去影响小孩子
Divorce is an adult’s decision, don’t influence the children
wǒ qí shí bù tài xǐ huān zhù fàn diàn
我其实不太喜欢住饭店
I don't really like staying in hotels
wǒ guān niàn hěn zhōng guó wǒ jué dé rén yī dìng yào mǎi fáng zi
我观念很中国,我觉得人一定要买房子
My concept is very Chinese, I think people must buy a house
cháng cháng qù de chéng shì wǒ xǐ huān yǒu jiā de gǎn jué
常常去的城市我喜欢有家的感觉
I like to feel at home in the cities I often go to
suǒ yǐ xiàn zài zài tái běi niǔ yuē xiāng gǎng shàng hǎi dōu yǒu yī gè jiā
所以现在在台北、纽约、香港、上海、都有一个家
So now I have a home in Taipei, New York, Hong Kong, Shanghai,
nián bān le cì jiā
12年搬了5次家
Moved 5 times in 12 years
měi gè rén tīng dào bān jiā dōu jué dé tóu hěn tòng
每个人听到搬家都觉得头很痛
Everyone feels a headache when they hear the move
rán hòu wǒ shì tīng dào bān jiā wǒ jiù hěn xīng fèn
然后我是听到搬家我就很兴奋
Then I was very excited when I heard the move
měi yī cì bān jiā wǒ dōu huì yǒu yī gè zhǔ tí
每一次搬家我都会有一个主题
I have a theme every time I move
jiù xiàng wǒ men měi yī jì zuò yī gè fú zhuāng de xì liè
就像我们每一季做一个服装的系列
Just like we make a clothing series every season
huì yǒu yī gè gài niàn yī yàng
会有一个concept(概念)一样
There will be a concept like
yǒu xiē rén huì shuō wǒ hǎo pà shēng hái zi
有些人会说我好怕生孩子
Some people will say I'm so afraid of having children
shēng hái zi yǐ hòu jiù méi yǒu wǒ zì jǐ de shēng huó le
生孩子以后就没有我自己的生活了
I don’t have a life of my own after giving birth
wǒ shuō bù huì ya
我说不会呀
I said no
kàn nǐ zì jǐ de xīn tài gēn nǐ zì jǐ zěn me qù fēn pèi ér yǐ
看你自己的心态跟你自己怎么去分配而已
It depends on your own mentality and how you allocate it
suǒ yǐ wǒ měi nián dà gài huì lǚ xíng zuì shǎo dào cì ba
所以我每年大概会旅行最少12到15次吧
So I probably travel at least 12 to 15 times a year
yī bàn jiù shì méi yǒu dài zhù xiǎo hái de
一半就是没有带著小孩的
Half of them didn't bring children
měi tiān de gōng zuò shí jiān chà bù duō sì dào wǔ gè xiǎo shí zuì duō le
每天的工作时间差不多四到五个小时最多了
The working time per day is almost four to five hours at most
rán hòu shèng xià de shí jiān jiù shì huā zài nǚ ér shēn shàng
然后剩下的时间就是花在女儿身上
And the rest of the time is spent on my daughter
huā zài wǒ zì jǐ shēn shàng
花在我自己身上
Spend on myself
wǒ jué dé suì yǐ hòu shì wǒ zuì shū fú de zhuàng tài
我觉得40岁以后是我最舒服的状态
I think after 40 years old is my most comfortable state
wǒ yī bān jiù shì huì zài lǐ bài wǔ huò lǐ bài liù jiù xuǎn yī tiān
我一般就是会在礼拜五或礼拜六就选一天
I usually choose one day on Friday or Saturday
jiù qǐng péng yǒu lái jiā lǐ chī fàn
就请朋友来家里吃饭
I invited my friends to eat at home
zhè nián lái
这12年来
These 12 years
wǒ zài shàng hǎi péi yǎng le yī zhǒng hěn shēn de gǎn qíng
我在上海培养了一种很深的感情
I cultivated a deep feeling in Shanghai
tái wān dāng rán shì wǒ de gù xiāng
台湾当然是我的故乡
Taiwan is of course my hometown
dàn shì wǒ jué dé shàng hǎi gèng xiàng wǒ de jiā
但是我觉得上海更像我的家
But I think Shanghai is more like my home