他那恃强欺弱的行为对于他所说的待人友善的漂亮言词是一个嘲弄。

His bully make a mock of all the fine thing he say about kindness to others.

很多人害怕说真话，害怕说不，那正是表现强硬的时刻，强硬不是恃强欺弱，而是有骨气。

A lot of people are afraid to tell the truth, to say no. That's where toughness comes into play. Toughness is not being a bully. It's having backbone.

（克里斯汀是在处理了一个女孩发给另一个女孩的威胁短信之后产生了上述观点）当然了，更多的激励孩子与人交朋友的本意是阻止恃强欺弱和排除社会极端后果。

Indeed, much of the effort to encourage children to be friends with everyone is meant to head off bullying and other extreme consequences of social exclusion.