母亲好言相劝，不让女儿独自去参加聚会。

The mother coaxes the daughter out of go to the party alone.

我们好言相劝你偏不听，出什么差错你自己负责。

You will be responsible for any problem, because you do not listen to our well-intentioned words.

他们经受的训练教给他们要用拳头说话，而并非好言相劝。其中很多人对未来的冲突还在严阵以待，并不去研究造成冲突的原因，以及在事态严重之前加以制止。

Trained to fight rather than persuade, many are still planning responses to future conflicts instead of studying their potential causes so as to stop them before they become a real bother.