汉英词典
Chinese-English Dictionary
MEANING OF 强扭的瓜不甜
lit. if you have to use force to break a melon off the vine, it won't taste sweet (because it's only when the melon is ripe that it can be removed with just a slight twist) (idiom) / fig. if sth is not meant to be, it's no use trying to force it to happen
喻条件不成熟而勉强去做,往往不会有满意的结果。
() qiáng niǔ de/dì/dí guā bù/bú tián
EXAMPLE SENTENCES

的确,-强扭的瓜不甜

Indeed, the melon-twisting is not sweet.

强扭的瓜不甜(牵马到河边易,逼马去饮水难。)

You can take a horse to water but you cannot make it drink.

他个性要强,何况强扭的瓜不甜。既然过不到一起,他就决定独自带着9岁的儿子另起炉灶。

He was a strong-minded man and knew that Love cannot be forced, so as he was not on good terms with his wife and had to live separately together with his 9-year-old son.