是否意味着它可以为我所用？

Does that mean I can use it for my own purposes?

最后，考虑这些要素怎样才能为我所用。

Finally, consider how to use those elements and ideas to your advantage.

我们使用其他模式，使之为我所用。

We use other models. We need to make them our own.

要坚持以我为主、为我所用的原则，开展多种形式的对外文化交流，博采众长，向世界展示中国文化建设的成就。

Should adhere to ourselves and for the principles I used to carry out various forms of foreign cultural exchanges, adopt many, to show the world the construction of Chinese culture achievement.

没有哪种方法是通吃的，事实上大部分方法都是五十步笑百步，所以还是要博取各家所长为我所用，因为我敢保证并非所有人都适合迷男方法。

No method is the golden way to seduce in fact most are fatally flawed so just take a little from each and piece together your own game cos I can assure you not everyone can pull off Mysterys method.