用拒绝媾和的方法？

By refusing to treat with him?

就在同一天，罗马第一次提出媾和倡议。

On this same day, the first peace overtures from Rome were made.

甚至有报道说死人爬出棺材与爱人媾和。

There are even reported cases of the deceased carrying on affairs with their loved ones from beyond the grave.