内心强大之人深知随时溜须拍马毫无必要。

Mentally strong people recognize that they don't need to please everyone all the time.

但是，最近有关她的新闻头条却远非溜须拍马。

But the latest headlines to mention her name have not been nearly as flattering.

尼克松曾让一高级助理存一份基辛格精神健康状况的资料，而基辛格当面对尼克松溜须拍马，一转身与记者说尼克松是“疯子”、“燥狂”、“笨蛋”。

Nixon told a top aide to keep a file on Mr Kissinger's mental health.