邻里低头不见抬头见，从某种程度上说是你不想好也得好的，我们何苦不处理好，至少处理得“温和”一点呢？

Neighbors low head do not see to raise head see, from certain kind level say is you do not think also get, us why bother do not handle, at least, does handling get the point "are you mild"?