他是光棍儿一条，一人吃饱全家不饿。

He is a bachelor, once he is fed, no one is hungry in his family.

这里的要点在于：不要光想着怎么改变你的光棍儿身份，要以光棍儿的身份去做些事情。

Basically the point here is - don't do something about your singleness, do something with your singleness.

转移注意力是另一个缓解你光棍儿心绪的途径。

Distraction is another way to take your mind off of being single.

你作光棍儿的时间很可能正是你实现梦想的时间。

Your time as a single person may be the only time that you have to fulfill your dreams.

这里说的是，你需要发现和你地位相同的一些人- - -和你同性的光棍儿们。

This means that you should try to find others that can relate to you - single people of the same gender.