可是你千方百计地诱惑他，他也许会一时痴迷忘了他应该对得起自己，对得起家里人。

But your arts and allurements may, in a moment of infatuation, have made him forget what he owes to himself and to all his family.

那么，谁更对得起你的血汗钱呢？

So which deserves your hard-earned cash?

不处处为大家着想，这样怎能对得起你这顶大檐帽？

If you do not think about the interests of the people, how could you be worthy of your peaked cap?

说了那么多遍对不起，就不能做一件对得起我的事么。

Said so many times, I'm sorry, can't do a live up to my thing?

她觉得这样才算是门当户对，对得起我们洛家的身份。

She feels that just being regarded as like this is of equal status, to the identity that must heave our Luo house.