同时，提醒他，他随时可以找你寻问建议或帮助。

At the same time, remind him that you're always there for his should he seek advice or help.

这可能意味着寻问追赶你的那个人，他或她到底想要的是什么，就像诺里斯回忆到的这个案例中的一样，一个女人多年来一直梦见一个又老又憔悴的妇人在她家周围追赶她。

That could mean asking someone who is chasing you what he or she wants as in the case Norris recalls of a woman who dreamed for years that an old, haggard woman was chasing her around her Home.